says: April 23, 2012 at 2:39am
Do not lie to your husband. If you're going to go off of the pill, he has to know about it. Tricking sonemoe with a pregnancy is a terrible idea. Yes, he'll love the baby, but when he finds out what you did he'll still resent you. Act like an adult and make mature decisions WITH YOUR HUSBAND. That is what being married is all about. You are a team of equals. If you do this on your own, you are manipulating him. Don't bring a child into this world on purpose (it's not by accident if you quit taking your pills voluntarily) until you are both ready. Just because you're ready does not mean that he is.Men should have every right to decide whether or not they are ready to be a father. Dirty tricks like this give women a bad name.